A: You will be taken by the hand every step of the way by myself or one of my Marriage Translators. Here are the 3 primary steps in Marriage 101:

1. Discover What's Right About You : after each of you "emotionally" vote for 56 traits through our customized online tool (The Flag Page), your Translator will explain to your spouse, and to you, who each of you are at heart, what your greatest talents, strengths and motivations are...and what that means for your marriage. This is the step that lays the foundation for your Driving Force in step 3.
   
   
2. Find The REAL Source Of Your Arguments: next, your Translator will compare and contrast your Flag Pages and work with you to point out exactly where the two of you are literally "stepping on each others" greatest needs which as a result, is causing conflict in your marriage.
   
   
3. Discover EXACTLY How To Support Each Others' Greatest Needs In Life : then, you'll work with your Marriage Translator to discover your "Driving Force" force that will give you a clear and specific set of "rules" on how to support each other. You will know exactly what you have to do to make your spouse feel loved and fulfilled in your marriage, and s/he will do the same for you. You'll be able to identify all the "red flags" that will immediately "set off" your spouse so you can focus on rebuilding your marriage and stop making mistakes.

A: Other than your Marriage Translator, no one else is involved with your learning process. Your phone calls are completely private. The particulars of your situation are held in the strictest confidence and we take this very seriously. Your private life is your business and your Translator lives by this philosophy.

A: Married couples with a variety of different faiths and backgrounds have completed the Marriage 101 program and found that none of the material conflicts with their religious foundations. In fact, couples are amazed at how it helps them see their faith in a way that helps them apply and live what they have already believed.

A: The material delivered in the Marriage 101 Program is based on the most recent research discovered about the brain and emotions. For example, what you’ll learn is supported by Daniel Goleman’s well-researched book Emotional Intelligence. The contents of this program are also supportive of the Christian faith and many couples with this world view have said that the program deepened their faith.

A: There is one major problem with psychology. Its words and labels create a vast canyon of separation between psychologists and the rest of us. Psychologists primarily seem to struggle to get to the point and show little ability to make the complex simple. Our approach explains the truth about how people are wired emotionally and does it in a way that anyone can understand.

A: Traditional counseling works for some couples, but historically, marriage counseling has failed to keep marriages together. The main reason for this failure is that marriage counseling is based on finding what is wrong with couples and then trying to fix it. Therapists are trained in university programs to believe that if the right questions are asked, the patient will find their own answers. If this were true, hundreds of thousands of practicing therapists would have already lowered our 50% divorce rate, but this has not happened.

What most couples don’t like about this theory is that these ‘questions’ often involve digging deep into your “psyche” by bringing up painful situations from the past. This is especially difficult for a man because men are not “built” to share their emotions.

Couples often tell us that marriage counseling did not work for them because it took the counselor many weeks to even get an understanding of their problems. What couples find most often is that once they focus on their problems, they are no longer able to think of solutions.

By contrast, Marriage 101 uses a set of unique online tools and your Marriage Translator to simplify and clearly explain exactly what you need to do to overcome the biggest obstacles in your marriage. We want to show you what’s right about the two of you, how you’re motivated differently and why that’s good, not bad. We never get into “who said what to whom” and we never dredge up the past or attempt to place blame. Dwelling on problems only creates more problems. As the two of you focus on your strengths, your problems evolve into solutions.

A:  Marriage 101 is only for couples. Our "sister" program for one spouse who believes they want to turn their troubled marriage around can be found at www.stopyourdivorcein4weeks.com.

A:  One of the things that makes Marriage 101 unique from most other programs is that it is delivered by a live person called a Marriage Translator. This is a live, one-on-one (or rather 2-on-one) coaching opportunity. This is not a group session and the calls are not recorded. It is 100% confidential.

A:  If this is your first marriage, Marriage 101 is a sure way to get your marriage off to a far more secure footing. You will create a strong foundation for your relationship that will help you withstand common “hot button” obstacles such as in-laws, financial issues, conflicting values and so many other tests that push marriages to the breaking point. 

Think of this program as your safe passage through the murky waters that destroy so many other marriages simply because they did not have the knowledge and skills to do things right the first time around.

A: Yes it does.

Guarantee #1: You WILL "see each other in a different light" after completing Marriage 101. This new sense of understanding will open the lines of communication and become the first, critical step in the right direction.

Guarantee #2: If after completing Marriage 101, you do not learn anything new about your spouse or see Marriage 101 as a beneficial step towards a better marriage, I will refund your money on the spot!

That's A FULL HOUR of my time that I'm willing to sacrifice on the belief that what I'm saying is really true! That's how confident I am in Marriage 101.

A:  Marriage 101 has a much different focus than the vast majority of marriage programs, books and courses do that are available on the internet.

Rather than telling one of you that you need to change, we reinforce who you really are at your best, and why that is a good thing. There is no need to change who you are. This is the big difference.

If you focus on acting differently, you will just go back to the way you've always done things, which is to say, you'll go back to the cause of what has always driven and created the way you handle situations.

Until you "lift the hood", you won't know how to tune up the car. Our focus is a lot less on "What Happened When " and a whole lot more on "Being Who Your Really Are". You'll be far happier together when you realize that you don't have to change who you are at heart.

One thing is certain. You won't be dwelling on problems because that only creates more problems.

A:  You can sign up for Marriage 101 at the following web page: Enroll in Marriage 101 Today

A:  Yes, you can place your order with one of our qualified staff members over the phone by calling 262-644-6815 between the regular business hours of 8:00am-5:00pm CST.