Has Your Marriage Reached The "Point of No Return"? Are you struggling to reconnect with your spouse because the spark and desire you once had together no longer exists? Do you desperately want to reconnect and "start over" with your spouse, but don’t know how or where to begin? Are you confused and overwhelmed about what you need to do to save your marriage? Do you want to set a positive example for your children instead of leading them to believe divorce is the answer and the "easy way out" of marriage problems? Are you looking for proven ideas you can use to strengthen your marriage and bring an end to the lack of intimacy, compassion, love and affection? Do you still feel you could have a happy, full and complete life if your spouse would just give you a chance? If you want your life and your family back, you absolutely need to start talking again so you can diffuse the tension and start moving forward in the right direction. But in order to do that, you need to know WHERE TO BEGIN and what to do first, step-by-step. Marriage 101 explains the step-by-step process and the tools you need to start moving forward in making your marriage work. Just follow our proven system and you’re on your way!

This One-Of-A-Kind Marriage Counseling Alternative Shows You How To:

* Show Each Other Compassion, Love and Affection - By Defining Your OWN Definitions For Each.

(Compassion, love and romance could be defined as candles, chocolate and suprise gifts for one person while someone else might see doing work around the house as the best way of showing love.)

* Stop Playing The "Blame Game"

(Marriage 101 will PROVE why niether of you are at fault for your marriage problems.)

* Finally Put An End To The Yelling, Arguing and Lack Of Apprecation For Each Other.

(When you discover exactly what you need to DO to start meeting your spouse's needs, you will find the number of arguments dramatically decrease!)

* Discover The REAL Reason Why Your Spouse Would Say, "I Love You, But I'm Not IN Love With You Anymore."

(It is very likely your spouse doesn't know WHY these feelings exist, only that they do and something must be done about it.)

No matter what point you're at in your marriage, Marriage 101 shows you how to first discover and then overcome the underlying issues that are causing you to find yourselves in the same boat, rowing in opposite directions.

Why Do Marriages Fail?

With so many other priorities demanding your attention like work, kids, schools and car pools, it's easy to put your marriage on the back burner.

In fact, most marriages fall apart because one spouse just couldn't juggle the delicate relationship between time with their spouse and the everyday demands of life.

This results in one spouse feeling neglected, alone, frustrated and resentful that their needs are no longer being met by their spouse. And that's when they utter those dreaded words, "I don't love you anymore" or "I want a divorce."

(Which more often than not hits the other spouse like a ton of bricks!)

But the trick is not to make better use of your time, or simply spend more time with your spouse.

To create a strong, lasting and fulfilling marriage, you need to know:

1) WHAT your spouse expects from your marriage.

2) HOW to define your spouse's greatest needs in life.

3) WHAT you can DO to fulfill these needs.

4) And let's not forget, your spouse needs to know the same about you!

The key is knowing EXACTLY how your spouse wants to be treated. If you try to get him or her to TELL you this, there's a 99.9% chance s/he will have no idea what to tell you...or instead what you'll hear is...

"STOP...doing this, STOP doing that..."

Instead of using negative statements like that, Marriage 101 teaches you to find your "Driving Force" using positive statements like, "I would like you to START..."

Are You Ready To Get Your Life and Your Family Back?

This phone-based, LIVE marriage counseling alternative provides you with the live support you would receive through traditional marriage counseling...yet Marriage 101 allows you to heal your marriage from the comfort of your home.

It doesn't matter if your spouse is reluctant to seeking outside help or if you are already currently seeing a marriage counselor.

This program is a non-invasive solution where our #1 goal is to break the tension and offer both of you new hope for your marriage and a long-lasting future together.

Wouldn't you be able to sleep better at night knowing your differences are NOT what is driving a wedge between the two of you?

It's true.

Through Marriage 101, you'll each discover what's GREAT about you, and hear rock-solid PROOF that NEITHER of you are the "bad guy" in your relationship. Neither of you are at fault for your marriage problems because it is something else altogether that is driving a wedge between you.

Marriage 101 is meant to be your first step in the right direction because it focuses on diffusing the tension and opening the lines of communication in your relationship.

No more fumbling for the right words to express your feelings. Your Marriage Translator will do that for you using the results from your Flag Page marriage assessment - a key component of Marriage 101.

Does this involve "reliving" painful experiences from the past?

Not at all.

All it takes is the desire for you to change the course of your marriage. We’ve put together a program that’s incredibly efficient in giving you answers into the age-old question, "Why does s/he do that?".

You’ll finally be able to stop GUESSING what you need to do to make your spouse happy.

This is your chance to discover who you are REALLY married to.

If you have a telephone, (even if you're in separate locations) then you have what it takes to break the tension and get the the core of what is driving you further apart each day. Just follow our proven system and you’ll be on your way.

If You Had An Opportunity To Significantly Reduce The Amount Of Arguments In Your Marriage, Would You Pass It Up?

One of the insights you'll discover in Marriage 101 is the fact that the two of you are quite literally "stepping on" each others' ways of succeeding in life.

You know WHY you're offended by something your spouse does or says...but you don't know why...UNTIL NOW!

And no matter what your particular situation is, whether it's:

• Lack of intimacy, compassion and romance
• Emotional abuse
• Money issues
• Engaging in an extramarital affair
• Issues with fear and jealousy
• Anger issues
• Control issues
  

No matter which of these issues (or any other) you're faced with, you CAN create the less stressful and more fulfilling marriage you've always wanted and ultimately, become the couple you set out to be.

Listen, if someone asked you to put together a list of the things you wanted most out of your marriage, what would it look like?

Chances are, it would probably look something like the list I have compiled below.

(I have compiled this list over the past 15 years of working with couples and on average, this is what the majority of men and women want out of their marriage.)

What Men Want Out Of Marriage

What Women Want Out Of Marriage

It IS possible that EACH of these points will describe your marriage in the near future - with the help of Marriage 101!

What is Marriage 101?

Marriage 101 is not marriage counseling.

It is marriage EDUCATION.

Instead of an intensive therapy session, we will show you, step-by-step how to overcome the most difficult issues in your marriage by focusing on the SOLUTION instead of the issues.

Rather than "bracing yourself" for things you don't want to hear, you will discover a way to reconnect in an upbeat and positive way that does NOT threaten, challenge or conflict with your current beliefs and values.

Marriage 101 is the place to start - to lay the foundation for a solid marriage - so you can get to the SOURCE of your arguments instead of dealing with the symptoms.

It is a unique system for creating the foundation for a lasting marriage - no matter how close (or far) you are from divorce or "the point of no return".

This isn't some average run-of-the-mill ebook on "rekindling the romance in your marriage" or "getting your spouse back".

This isn't a course that is shipped to your home that would take you weeks to go through only to come to the conclusion that you didn't learn anything that will make a SIGNIFICANT difference in your marriage. And this isn't the same old "rehashed" relationship advice you'd find in People Magazine.

The real value of Marriage 101 takes place during the LIVE, 60 minute phone call with myself or one of my Marriage Translators.

That's right. A REAL PERSON will be teaching you the PROVEN steps that are absolutely critical to a fulfilling marriage that lasts.

It's actually quite simple. Marriage 101 begins with each of you taking a 5 minute quiz online called the Flag Page. This tool has been proven time and time again to help couples see what they're missing in their relationship simply because they "can't see the forest for the trees" as the old saying goes.

In fact, it took me 12 years to perfect this “formula”, but today it has made a positive impact on well over 18,000 people by helping them gain a sense of purpose and direction in life by discovering the REAL source of the arguments in their marriage.

And best of all, you'll learn how to SUPPORT each other, instead of criticizing each other for your very different ways of doing things and living life.

And you'll be taken by the hand every step of the way by myself or one of my qualified Marriage Translator through the following three simple steps.

So What Are These Three Steps?

1. Discover What's Right About You : after each of you "emotionally" vote for 56 traits through our customized online tool (The Flag Page), your Translator will explain to your spouse, and to you, who each of you are at heart, what your greatest talents, strengths and motivations are...and what that means for your marriage. This is the step that lays the foundation for your Driving Force in step 3.
   
   
2. Find The REAL Source Of Your Arguments: next, your Translator will compare and contrast your Flag Pages and work with you to point out exactly where the two of you are literally "stepping on each others" greatest needs which as a result, is causing conflict in your marriage.
   
   
3. Discover EXACTLY How To Support Each Others' Greatest Needs In Life : then, you'll work with your Marriage Translator to discover your "Driving Force" force that will give you a clear and specific set of "rules" on how to support each other. You will know exactly what you have to do to make your spouse feel loved and fulfilled in your marriage, and s/he will do the same for you. You'll be able to identify all the "red flags" that will immediately "set off" your spouse so you can focus on rebuilding your marriage and stop making mistakes.
   

To summarize, 1) discovering what's right about each of you, 2) finding the real source of your arguments, and finally 3) discovering exactly how to support each others' greatest needs in life

That’s the formula that will set you on the right path towards a stronger marriage you can look forward to for years to come.

Marriage 101 is intended to help you discover what's MISSING from your marriage that is preventing you from being happy together.

Think of Marriage 101 as your transitional step from "I'm just not sure if this marriage is going to work" to..."I really do believe we can work this out!".

But in addition to acting as your "stepping stone" between the place you're at now in your marriage and where you want really to be, Marriage 101:

Helps you think of the words to express how you want your spouse to treat you. You'll know EXACTLY HOW and WHY you want to be treated a certain way.

Gives you a clear understanding of who your spouse really is, what REALLY motivates him/her and what it means to you

Is a first step in the right direction because it gives each of you NEW HOPE and shows you your marriage is not as bad as you might think it is.

Clears the “smokescreen” and discover the REAL causes of your arguments and disagreements

Gives you peace of mind knowing that you'll never again argue over "whose way is right", because you truly understand each other for the first time.

Significantly reduces the tension in your relationship and creates a sense of understanding that leads to better communication.

And much, much more.

As long as you’re able to follow simple steps, and willing to devote 60 minutes of your time with your Marriage Translator over the phone, you can get a new sense of hope for your marriage starting TODAY.

In fact, most Marriage 101 couples actually have FUN together during the call with their Marriage Translator. Many laugh together for the first time, in a long time.

This Is What Sets Marriage 101 Apart From The Rest - This Experience Is NOT Painful.

This program is meant to create a sense of understanding and bring the two of you closer together after just 60 minutes over the phone with your Marriage Translator.

And for a nominal investment of $47, today you can finally get the help you need without breaking your budget.

So what are you waiting for? Let's get started.

WARNING: Don't Put This Off

I must issue this formal "warning" to you because I don't want you to be one of those people who calls me up and says, "Larry, please help me, my wife/husband wants a divorce."

The absolute biggest MISTAKE you can make Is undervaluing and underestimating your spouses' level of discontentment.

I strongly suggest that if you have the intention of signing up for Marriage 101, you do it TODAY. If you wait, or put it off, your spouse can "pull the plug" and give up in a matter of MINUTES with NO WARNING at all.

I have personally trained my Marriage Translators to conduct the Marriage 101 call and I'm very proud because they have turned their own marriages around using what I teach. 

These Marriage Translators are people who live what they teach. However, their schedule can be booked up at times, and I may be the Marriage Translator working with the two to you. 

Either way, don't wait.  Book your Marriage 101 call today and put a very positive experience in your lives right now before it's too late.

P.S. If you have any questions at all, feel free to call my assistant Kristen at 262-644-6815. She will help you in any way she can.

- Larry Bilotta