After Mark Gungor’s Laugh Your
Way Weekend Event, Couples Who
Struggle Are Ready For Marriage 101
From: Jane Duberstein
Re: Marriage 101
For many couples, Mark Gungor’s weekend marriage event, Laugh Your Way To A Better Marriage, gets them moving in the right direction, but for deeper marriage problems, they need more private help.
That’s my purpose here.
Mark’s weekend may have even been your last ditch attempt at saving your marriage and causing one of you to be convinced that if a weekend seminar can’t help us, nothing can. But there IS another step.
It’s called Marriage 101.
It’s a one hour phone call with me and the two of you, where you each learn to understand your unique motivations through your Flag Pages.
For the last 5 years, I have been a Marriage Translator under the direct training and guidance of Larry Bilotta, creator of the Flag Page (you saw Mark Gungor demonstrate Flag Pages on the Saturday morning part of the program).
Not only have I helped hundreds of couples and individuals succeed in their relationships, I have also applied the tools of Fulfilled Couple and Marriage 101 to my own life and marriage.
When you both participate in the Marriage 101 one hour call, we will create your Flag Page Driving Force cards, which are exact descriptions of how you want to be treated.
I CANNOT present material that I have not personally experienced in my own life.
I’m sure you’ve heard the saying “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you’re going to get”. But it’s OK to bust them open, reveal what’s inside, then throw away what you don’t like!!!
My experience with Marriage 101 and Fulfilled Couple's unique set of tools has shown me how to do just that. And in "cleaning up" my own life, I have become a more understanding wife, mother, step-mother and Marriage Translator WITH FAR LESS STRESS.
If you've read Fulfilled Couple founder, Larry Bilotta's “Marriage Made In Hell” true-life story, you would see that he developed his Fulfilled Couple program out of his real life marriage turmoil. The same tools he used to transform his painful marriage are the same tools you’ll be using in Marriage 101 and the Fulfilled Couple program when you arrive at that point.
I have found this program to be so key to a good marriage, that I insisted my daughter and her husband go through the program before they got married. They were hesitant at first, but they are now so very glad they did!
Now here's my question for you...
Are You Tired Of Hearing Your Spouse
Tell You What's WRONG With You?
Wouldn't It Be Refreshing To Hear Someone
Tell You What's RIGHT About You?
Well, one thing's certain...you won't find THAT in a personality test or a marriage counseling session.
What you want to know is...

Look, we live in a world where people honestly expect other people to be like them and I can’t count the number of times I've heard people say that!
It's too easy to get caught up in the trap of "fault finding." Your mate may try to convince you that YOU need to change. Or maybe the other way around.
It's very possible that one of you have said, "you need to get tougher", or "stop being such a doormat".
Or maybe it's just the opposite. Maybe people tell you that "you need to be more relaxed...just let loose and stop worrying about things!"
The point is this...in a marriage, we try to get our partner to become more like OURSELVES. It's a fact of life because it's EASIER to deal with people who share your values and beliefs.
But since your spouse can't get YOU to change and YOU can't get YOUR SPOUSE to change, how is it possible for the two of you to become happily married?
THE ANSWER?
By getting your spouse to UNDERSTAND what's RIGHT about you.
The EASY, EFFORTLESS And PAINLESS
Way To Find Out And Prove To Your
Spouse What's GREAT About You!
IT’S CALLED MARRIAGE 101
It's a non-invasive, 100% POSITIVE way to break the tension and open the lines of communication so you can begin your first step towards a more fulfilling marriage....
The Only Phone-Based, LIVE Support For Couples
Who
Want To Become Happily Married...
...But Can't Find A Way To Do It On Their Own!
Here are some of the insights you'll discover through Marriage 101:
- Almost INSTANTLY diffuse the tension and open the lines of communication in your relationship.
(In every struggling marriage, there is one spouse who is more frustrated than the other. Very often this spouse is not open to discussing feelings, issues, the current state of their marriage, or very much else other than normal everyday things.
One of the key tools in Marriage 101, The Flag Page, does a remarkable job at breaking the tension and opening up discussion due to the 100% POSITIVE approach and light-hearted nature of the tool and discussion during our call together.)
- Gain a sense of NEW HOPE for a what seemed like a hopeless marriage.
(The insights taught within Marriage 101 will give you a new sense of hope for your future together because I will show you, and PROVE to you, that your marriage is not as bad as you might think it is.
After our call together the two of you might even have FUN together - for the first time in months.)
- Get answers to the age-old question, "Why does s/he do that?"
(Most struggling couples are unhappy because they deeply misunderstand each other. Once you and your spouse begin to support each other, you’ll begin to thrive and succeed together.)
- You’ll be able to STOP guessing what will make your spouse happy.
(Finally, you’ll be able to discover who you’re REALLY married to. The powerful online tool called the Flag Page has actually saved some marriages all by itself!)
- PROOF that there is no "bad guy" in your relationship.
(After taking just 5 minutes to complete your Flag Page online (ABSOLUTELY NO invasive questions involved), during our call together you and your spouse will hear a 100% POSITIVE “story” about who you are, what motivates you and where you will succeed in life.)
- No longer struggle for words to express how you want to be treated.
(Instead of fumbling around searching for words to express how you want your spouse to treat you, the Flag Page outlines a clear and definite plan on EXACTLY HOW and WHY each of you want to be treated a certain way.)
- Achieve PERSONAL fulfillment in addition to fulfillment in your marriage.
(This is the quickest and easiest way to find out your most important motivations in life; not just your marriage. Not only will you hear positive things about yourself, but just as importantly, you'll discover that your spouse has a set of motivations you can begin to understand and support. That changes everything.)
- SIGNIFICANTLY reduce the amount of arguments in your marriage.
(During our call together, the two of you will discover that very often you are quite literally "stepping on" each others' ways of succeeding in life! You know WHY you're offended by something your spouse does or says...but you don't know why...UNTIL NOW!)
Marriage 101 Is The EXACT OPPOSITE
Of Marriage Counseling...
You don't tell me, I tell you what's great about each of you and together, we will find out why you argue, OR why you don’t argue at all…favoring shut down instead.
It's EASY.
Through Marriage 101, you start by taking a 5 minute quiz online called the Flag Page (shown below) that will show you what's RIGHT about you.
It took Founder Larry Bilotta 12 years to perfect this technology, but today it has made a positive impact on well over 18,000 people by helping them gain a sense of purpose and direction in life by discovering the REAL source of the arguments in their marriage.
"Marriage Help Just Doesn’t
Get Any Better Than This..."
Marriage help just doesn’t get any better than this. Everything about the Flag Page, was so enlightening and eye-opening, every couple should start their life together with this amazing insight.
- Austin and Souhila Calder - Boca Raton, Florida |
Here's What You Can Expect To Receive
When You Complete Your Flag Page...
1. Two Customized Flag Pages (one for each of you), 6 Pages Each
Each of you will receive 6 pages of customized "stories" like the ones below explaining who you really are at heart and what your greatest talents, strengths and motivations are.
(Click on images to enlarge)
2. A 60-Minute Phone Session of LIVE Support
After you each complete your Flag Pages online, you will receive a LIVE, 60 MINUTE phone session with me and the two of you. Since no other people are on this call, you’ll be able to ask questions and make comments.
You will also receive a recorded copy of the call delivered to you in an MP3 format for later listening.
3. Discover Your "Driving Force"
Your "Driving Force" force gives you a clear and specific set of "rules" on how to support each other. Think of it like a road map of your spouse. You will know exactly what you have to do to make your spouse feel loved and fulfilled in your marriage, and s/he will do the same for you. You'll be able to identify all the "red flags" that will immediately "set off" your spouse so you can focus on rebuilding your marriage and stop making mistakes.

Your Driving Force is based on your Flag Page. During your live Marriage 101 call, I will help you to create 5 expressions that really matter to each of you. When we identify these 5 expressions, we'll compare them with your spouses' Driving Force and you will realize HOW and WHY you are literally "stepping on" each others' way of succeeding in life.
Many couples believe the Driving Force exercise is worth the investment in and of itself, so much that they can't put a price on it. Bottom line?
Marriage 101 Opens The Lines
Of Communication and Breaks
Tension Like NOTHING ELSE Does.
Here’s what one man had to say
after learning about his Flag Page...
"The Flag Page Has Radically
Changed My Life...
Meditation, Hypnosis, Cognitive
Therapy, Introspection and Drugs
All Failed To Answer One Right
Question; ”Who am I?”
...Now That I Know The Answer To
This Question... I Am No Longer
Trying To Change; I Am Becoming
What I Was Intended To Be."
"When I first encountered the Flag Page, I cynically passed it off as just another self-help miracle cure. But in fact, it is based upon ancient and proven wisdom, and gave me the only accurate picture that I have ever had of myself.
I have spent nearly 50 years searching for answers from philosophers, ranging from Maharishi to Dave Barry. I found few answers, so I turned to psychotherapy and prescription medications. After five years of therapy and medication, I was in danger of becoming critically quirky, and still had no answers.
The Flag Page has radically changed my life.
Meditation, hypnosis, cognitive therapy, introspection and drugs- all failed to answer one Right Question; ”Who am I?” Now that I know the answer to this question, I no longer waste my time with pointless questions and feel that I have been set free from a lifetime of neurotic whining.
Most of all, I am enjoying a new set of challenges based upon stunningly accurate self-realization. I am no longer trying to change; I am becoming what I was intended to be."
-Terry Jones
Stevens Point, WI |
But What Makes Marriage 101 Different
From Other Marriage Help Solutions Is
The Fact That We Don't Focus On The
ISSUES, We Focus On The Solution!
And best of all, you'll learn how to SUPPORT each other, instead of criticizing each other for your very different ways of doing things and living life.
But it's important that you know the Flag Page is NOT about CHANGING WHO YOU ARE. It's about understanding who you really are by discovering what's right about you.
Focusing on improving your weaknesses is NOT going to do you any good.
The key is to FOCUS on your strengths...
...THAT Is The REAL Key To Not Only Self-
Improvement, But Any Improvement
In Your Relationship As Well
But don't take my word for it...Here's how Marriage 101 helped to break the tension in this couples' marriage...
Joanne was a very ambitious woman who, to her husband Sam, seemed to always try to control him. Sam was an easy going, laid back guy with a sense of humor.
During our call together, Joanne told me she felt like she has to push Sam because he never does anything without her asking him first.
In Sam's mind, his wife Joanne was one of those wives he thought of as more of a "nag" or a "mother figure" than a wife.
Sam's "A-HA" Moment
After our call together, Sam shared with me a key point, or as he referred to it, the "a-ha" moment that really stood out to him. It went something like this..
"I'm an airline pilot and when I'm in flight, I can't receive phone calls. But as always, my wife would call anyway. It got to the point when I always knew that when I finally got off the plane there would be 3 messages left on my phone. In the first, my wife would be "steaming", in the second, she was even more upset, and in the third, she was down right angry.
Once we had our flag page call, Joanne realized that she is the way she is for a reason and I am the way I am for a reason. The Flag Page told us this in a clear, simple and even FUN way.
Neither of us were offended during the call because we realized what was good about each of us and that's just what we needed to break the tension."
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Can't I Find Something Like
This Anywhere Else?
In a word, no. There is no other product on the internet, or anywhere for that matter that can do for your marriage what Marriage 101 can. No one, in 15 years of doing this has seen anything like this before.
"This Flag Page Helped Me
Learn
About Who I Really Am and It’s So
Unbelievably Accurate, It’s Spooky."
This Flag Page helped me learn about who I really am and it’s so unbelievably accurate, it’s spooky. I have a friend and his wife who actually did theirs before me and they could not believe how right-on the final results were.
I am going home for a couple of days and plan on getting my wife and daughters Flag Pages as well. What a fantastic, enlightening gift this is.
- Bob Farrington |
I've never had anyone argue with me. In fact, I DARE you to give Marriage 101 a try and back it up with our 100% Money-Back Satisfaction Guarantee!
We Back Up Marriage 101 With A
Promise and a 100% Risk-Free
Money-Back Guarantee
Guarantee: If you're both not satisfied with the results of your first experience with Marriage 101 and you do not learn anything new about your spouse, just let us know within 24 hours and we'll gladly give you a full refund, less materials and setup fees. That's how confident we are in Marriage 101's ability to help you truly understand each other.
That's A FULL HOUR of my time with you on the belief that what I'm saying is really true! That's how confident I am in Marriage 101.
Sincerely,
Jane Duberstein,
Marriage Translator
P.S. Read on if you want more detail about why this one hour phone call can make such a difference for the two of you. |
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Who Should NOT Participate
In Marriage 101?
Marriage 101 is NOT for you IF...
You are both happy, content and in love...
You enjoy each others' company and finish each others' sentences...
You are so full of hatred and resentment that you can't even think straight...
You actually ENJOY the "high" of resentment and contempt.
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Will Marriage 101 Save Your Marriage?
Marriage 101 is not intended to save your marriage on its own. It is intended to help you discover what is MISSING from your marriage that is preventing you from being happy together.
"This Flag Page Has Made Things
Just So Wonderful...I Am Feeling
Like A Part Of (My Husband's) Life -
A Feeling I Haven't Had For Years!"
This Flag Page has made things just so wonderful - like they were long ago! I am feeling like a part of his life - a feeling I haven't had for several years.”
- Sue & Dennis Henschel |
Think of Marriage 101 as your transitional step from "I'm just not sure if this marriage is going to work" to..."I really do believe we can work this out!".
In a Nutshell, Here Is a Quick "Recap" Of
What Marriage 101 Can Do For You...
Significantly reduces the tension in your relationship.
Creates a sense of understanding that leads to better communication.
Is a first step in the right direction because it gives each of you NEW HOPE and shows you your marriage is not as bad as you might think it is.
Helps you think of the words to express how you want your spouse to treat you. You'll know EXACTLY HOW and WHY you want to be treated a certain way.
Finally, get a clear understanding of who your spouse really is, what REALLY motivates him/her and what it means to you.
Clear the “smokescreen” and discover the REAL causes of your arguments and disagreements.
Never again argue over "whose way is right", because you'll have a clear understanding of how your values were created...
And today, you can participate in Marriage 101 for just $97. But if you've completed your Flag Page after attending a Mark Gungor LIVE event, you'll get a full $20 off the price!
You won't find this kind of personal, one-on-one support for such a low price, and guaranteed to boot!
So don't delay, sign up for Marriage 101 today and I'll speak with you soon!
"It Was (Marriage 101's) Flag Page
That Explained The Differences
Between Shawn and Me As People,
But Also As Man and Woman...
...The Guesswork Has Been Taken
Away and Replaced With Tangible
Information We Can Act On."
It was the Flag Page that explained the differences between Shawn and me as people, but also as man and woman.
Without the Flag Page, we never would have had this insight or opportunity to understand our two teenage daughters. The girls told us that it meant a lot to them that we would do this Flag Page just so we could understand them.
We have more confidence in our relationships with our children because the lights have been turned on and we are no longer grasping in the dark for answers. The guesswork has been taken away and replaced with tangible information we can act on.
Shawn & Tamara Marion - Plover, Wisconsin |
"(Marriage 101's Flag Page) Really
Opened Some Answers To
Understanding How Much Easier
It Is To Meet
Our Real Needs..."
We discovered each other’s Flag Pages and learned about who we are and how this affects each other and our children. It really opened some answers to understanding how much easier it is to meet our real needs.
Jim & Donna McCabe - Vancouver, Washington |
WARNING: Don't Put This Off
I issue this formal "warning" to you because I don't want you to be one of those people who calls later and say “Jane, please help me, my wife/husband wants a divorce."
The Biggest MISTAKE You Can
Make Is Undervaluing and
Underestimating Your Spouses'
Level Of Discontentment.
So what can you do about it?...
- RATE YOUR MARRIAGE -
I'm so serious about this, I've included this MARRIAGE METER (below) so you can ask your spouse to identify where he or she is on the scale.
Click the image below for a printable version of the Marriage Meter.
This will help the two of you know where you are at in your marriage...what you find might surprise you!
WARNING: An unhappy spouse may not stay in one position on the Marriage Meter very long before dropping to the next. Don't wait for that to happen. Do something positive for your marriage today, before it's too late!
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I STRONGLY SUGGEST that if you have the intention of signing up for Marriage 101, you do it TODAY. If you wait, or put it off, your spouse can "pull the plug" with NO WARNING at all.
So don't wait, reserve your spot today!
Okay, I'm Ready To Get Started,
How Does This Work?
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Simply Sign Up For The Marriage 101 Program On This Page Below. |
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When Your Order Is Confirmed, I'll Send You the Access Code So You Can Complete Your Flag Page Online. |
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I Will Contact You By Email and Arrange a Date and Time For Our Marriage 101 Call. |
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If you're ready for me to take you by the hand and shown exactly what you need to do to feel like you're falling in love again...
I guarantee you’ll be thrilled with what you'll discover about yourself and your spouse, so you’ve got nothing to lose!
"The Flag Page made our complicated life simple again."
Dick and Geri DuBois – Green Bay, Wisconsin
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"The Flag Page! I just can hardly believe how accurate and how important that tool is."
Michael Voecting - Sheboygan, Wisconsin
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"What we learned from the Flag Page spills into other relationships and makes a positive imprint on our children.”
Tim and Mary Gorton - Green Bay, Wisconsin
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To a LESS stressful and MORE fulfilling marriage,
Jane Duberstein

P.S. Please don't take this opportunity lightly and let it slip through your fingers. Every minute that passes increases the chance of your spouse reaching "the point of no return". All it takes is one heated argument...or one cold look to "set your spouse off" and call it quits.
I've seen "sticky situations" in one case where the wife filed for divorce without even telling her husband about it...until one day the papers appeared at his doorstep.
DON'T LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU! |