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message from Larry Bilotta
Larry Bilotta , Founder
The Fulfilled Couple program
"For 27 Years, I Lived In a
Marriage Made In Hell, But In
The 28th Year, I Fell In Love...
...With My Wife!
Throughout Our 27 Years Together, I Discovered The
Source of Divorce And 'Unlocked' The Real Secrets To a Happy Marriage That Even Marriage Counselors Don't Know About!"
And today, I'd like to share these secrets with YOU!
I invite you to join my Fulfilled Couple program where
I have consistently proven to show real couples, facing difficult obstacles just like you, how to:
Gain a new depth of acceptance, simplicity and sincerity in your relationship on every level.
Effortlessly treat each other with acceptance and respect.
Clear the “smokescreen” and find the REAL causes of your arguments and disagreements.
Eliminate your negative feelings in 60 seconds
Never have to worry about an affair taking place.
Improve your marriage in a totally positive way WITHOUT bringing up painful memories from the past.
Stop fumbling around and searching for words to express how you want your spouse to treat you.
Create a step-by-step action plan on how to care for the unique person you married.
If you’re ready to become part of the Fulfilled Couple program, please proceed to the next web page where you can join others in becoming truly fulfilled in your marriage!
If
you’re not ready, sit back,
relax and read my letter below because I think it's important you take a moment to read the top 8 reasons you might NOT sign up for the Fulfilled Couple program today.
To a less stressful and more fulfilling marriage,
Larry Bilotta , Founder
The Fulfilled Couple program
P.S. Just in case you are short on time, I have given you the
final summarizing paragraph first. If you want to read the rest, here
it is:
READ THIS FIRST!
Before you continue reading, as I mentioned earlier, I think it's important that you take a moment to read the top 8 reasons you might NOT sign up for my Fulfilled Couple program today.
The
reason I’m doing this up front is because I want to address the most common questions and concerns couples are faced with when they first learn about the Fulfilled Couple program.
So based on my experience, here are the 8 most common concerns couples are faced with…
8 Common Reasons Why Couples Are Hesitant
To Sign Up For The Fulfilled Couple Program
Reason #1: "There are so many programs on the internet that claim to save your marriage. What makes yours different and how do I know it really works?”
When couples make an effort to improve their marriage, such as marriage counseling or seminars, they experience a difference in their marriage temporarily, but eventually, they fall back into their old habits. This leads them to wonder if there is even a solution out there that really works long term.
Fulfilled Couple is the ONLY program that teaches you how to eliminate your negative feelings in 60 seconds. No one teaches this powerful concept. Not pastors, not marriage counselors, not any of the other "major players" in the marriage industry.
Once you learn to master this skill, not only does your relationship take a 180 degree turn for the better, but your chances of falling back into old habits DRAMATICALLY decreases.
But you don't have to take my word for it. Rather than “selling” you on the program, if you're serious about living a more fulfilling marriage, why not hear it "straight from the horses mouth"?
If you'd like to talk speak with one of my Fulfilled Couple Alumni couples, Contact my assistant/daughter Kristen at kristen@fulfilledcouple.com to arrange a private, 15 minute consultation between me, you and your spouse. Based on your current situation, I will match you up with a couple going through similar struggles so you can hear first hand, what this program has done for their relationship.
If you're ready, click here now to get started in the one and only program that guarantees a lasting marriage.
Click the "play" button below and turn up your speakers to hear the results Darek and Sam experienced through the Fulfilled Couple program.
"As far as I was concerned I was done! I even used those exact words. In my eyes my marriage was more than over. I felt there was nothing that would even make me want to stay and I didn't even want to stay to find out." ...
Click the "play" button above to hear Derek and Sam, in their own words, share their experience in the Fulfilled Couple program.
Derek and Samantha Craig, San Diego, California
Reason #2:“We're both entering our first/second marriage, we are not sure if a program like this is right for us since we have so few problems in our marriage right now.”
The Fulfilled Couple program is a sure way to get your marriage off to a far more secure footing. You will create a strong foundation for your relationship that will help you withstand common “hot button” obstacles such as in-laws, financial issues, conflicting values and so many other "challenging tests" that push marriages to the breaking point. Think of this program as your safe passage through the murky waters that destroy so many other marriages simply because they did not have the knowledge or skills to do things right the first time around. If you want to be in love...and STAY in love, you must learn HOW to love.
"For the last 20 yrs we’ve been searching through books, counselors, advice, programs etc, and never found the real answer to why our lives were a living hell; we were convinced each other was the problem.
Because of this program, we are finally able to describe our needs and feelings without anger or defense."
We both came into marriage 38 years ago believing things that our two troubled childhoods created in which almost guaranteed a troubled marriage.
The last 10 yrs we had no sex because emotional problems were too difficult to manage.
In each of our own ways, we felt frustrated, trapped, imprisoned and hopeless. For the last 20 yrs we’ve been searching through books, counselors, advice, programs etc, and never found the real answer to why our lives were a living hell; we were convinced each other was the problem.
We’re slowly learning how to be a healthily married couple. It’s like building a house with a strong foundation. Because of this program, we are finally able to describe our needs and feelings without anger or defense. It feels like a brand new road we couldn’t find till our 50’s.
Lots of ah ha moments! There seems to be a healthy continual maturing going on! We are starting to understand why everything we tried in the past didn’t worked. We’ve got options, tools, hope & a positive view on life. Our work within ourselves and with each other is beginning to get results. We’ve seen the light…we really can be a fulfilled couple.
Lou & Florina Korf
Vancouver, Washington
Reason #3:“Your program may work for others, but OUR situation is different.”
When couples say their situation is different, what they are really saying is that their situation seems far beyond repair.
Many couples who seek help from us are hung up on their "situation". They want to explain, in great detail, all the pain and events that have lead to the deterioration of their relationship.
This may come as a shock to you, but there is NO NEED to constantly "relive" the pain of these difficult events that have transpired in your relationship. This is in fact, one of the major flaws in marriage counseling - counselors focus on issues, rather than solutions.
In the Fulfilled Couple program, we don't focus what has happened in your past. We focus on using the program's specific set of tools to create understanding and awareness in your relationship. But most important of all, we show you HOW to love and care for each other because contrary to popular thought, love is NOT a feeling...it is something you DO.
Click here now to never again have to worry about "what to do" when faced with a difficult obstacle in your marriage.
"The first sixteen years of our marriage can't even compare to what it is now, even the first couple years.
We now go on dates together, we write love letters to each other, we have meaningful talks, we touch a lot, we kiss a lot....
...We protect each other, we respect each other...we have fun together and we really miss each other when we are apart."
Our lives are nothing like they were. What has changed?
We went through the program. It gave us the tools which taught us how to be married and really love it……even with our great differences.
Our marriage took a 180 degree turn-around.
We now go on dates together, we write love letters to each other, we have meaningful talks, we touch a lot, we kiss a lot, we seek ways to fill each others core needs, we enjoy each other, we protect each other, we respect each other, we take pleasure in intimacy, we accept our differences, we have fun together, we encourage each other, and we really miss each other when we are apart.
Our life is not perfect because we still have our tough moments, but we recognize them faster and change our attitude quicker. We no longer believe the lie that we would be better off with someone else. That’s an idea that now makes us laugh….my goodness, who could surpass what we have together?
Our marriage is a partnership, growing towards true unity and we are becoming... the Fulfilled Couple!"
Ray and Dawn Shroeder
Reason #4:"We’ve tried marriage counseling in the past and it only made things worse. How do I know Your Program Is Different from Marriage Counseling?"
Traditional marriage counseling focuses on finding problems in order to fix them. The Fulfilled Couple program has a completely different focus. We want to show you what’s right about the two of you, how you’re motivated differently and why that’s a good, not a bad thing. We never get into “who said what to whom” and we never dredge up problems from the past or attempt to place blame. Dwelling on problems only creates more problems. In this program, you'll be focused on the best that is in you and in each other. This program is vastly different than marriage counseling for that reason.
Click here now to take a 100% POSITIVE approach towards building a lasting and fulfilling marriage.
"At the end of the first phone call we were laughing and touching in ways we had not done for a long time.
By the time we got through the program, our children noticed the difference and it changed them too."
We thought there was no way to get over our differences. This marriage program is not counseling because we tried that. Marriage counseling told us we had to change, and usually magnified the differences.
This marriage program is different because we learned about each other’s differences and what we could do to show real love to each other. This program is about understanding what motivates your partner.
They call themselves marriage translators, which is a good way to put it because we finally learned how to talk to each other without bringing up the past. Our translator helped to communicate what we were trying to say and really meant. We found out we’re really good people.
One tool called the Flag Page gave us so much more understanding of ourselves and each other. At the end of the first phone call we were laughing and touching in ways we had not done for a long time. By the time we graduated, our children noticed the difference and it changed them too. Before the program, the kids were playing us against each other.
Now our entire family, including the kids who left the nest are happier and have a better relationship with both of us.
We are both very thankful that we’re becoming a fulfilled couple."
Brian & Lori Stepanik
Reason #5:"My Spouse Has Engaged In An Affair. Does Your Program Help Couples Overcome Infidelity?"
Infidelity is a very common result of a neglected relationship. We see it as just another sign of two people who remained ignorant of marriage success principles since they first "fell" in love. Infidelity does not guarantee the end of a marriage and is often the negative cause for both spouses to wake up to a renewed desire to learn how to do marriage right and do it together.
Click here now to never have to worry about an affair taking place again.
"It’s been several months since we completed our Fulfilled Couple program and Mark and I just had such an incredible weekend!
We actually enjoyed every minute of our time together. We are going from living to loving and from having sex to making love!
It’s been several months since we completed our Fulfilled Couple program and Mark and I just had such an incredible weekend!
We actually enjoyed every minute of our time together. HOURS! (Yikes) of getting to "know" each other! We couldn't wait to get home and keep living it out!
I think for 11 years we both tried to love Heidi but didn't know how. Neither of us loved Mark. Sex was all about Mark and I was just something on the side once in awhile. Everyday life was all about me and the kids and Mark was just something on the side once in awhile. We are going from living to loving and from having sex to making love! This program is showing us a whole new world.
Mark & Heidi Mann
Reason #6:"Besides your own life experiences, what do you base your foundation for helping others? i.e. What source do you build your belief system on and is your service strictly confidential?"
Much of the material delivered in the Fulfilled Couple program is based on the most recent research discovered about the brain and emotions. For example, what you’ll learn is supported by Daniel Goleman’s well-researched book Emotional Intelligence. The contents of this program are also supportive of the Christian faith and many couples with these beliefs have said that the program deepened their faith.
On the subject of being confidential, other than your Marriage Translator, no one else is involved in your learning process. Your phone calls are completely private. The particulars of your situation are held in the strictest confidence and we take this very seriously. Your private life is your business and your Translator lives by this philosophy.
Click here now for a private alternative to divorce you can participate in from the privacy and convenience of your own home.
Reason #7:"Are your methods reliable? I need to know that your program will make it possible for both of us to make real changes that last."
One of the most important keys to The Fulfilled Couple program is accountability. During your first month of the program, you’ll learn about your most positive motivations, how your childhood affects your marriage and how to eliminate your negative feelings.
Months 2-6 take you through an accountability/goal setting process that will help the two of you to literally fall in love again, (only you don't "fall", it is more like taking baby steps back to your original love). Your Translator will assist you in setting specific goals that are focused on how you can be true to yourself, while letting go of the insecurities and tension that caused the two of you to drift apart.
In order to once again feel the love you once felt for each other, you will need to learn how to be happy with yourself. The Fulfilled Couple program will help you do exactly that.
For a solid, 6 months, we take-you-by-the-hand and show you, A-Z, the exact steps you need to take in order to create and maintain a successful marriage. Once you complete the school, you become part of the Fulfilled Couple program where you join the network of Fulfilled Couple Alumni couples who have also successfully saved their marriages. This is the extra "safety net" support system you need to "stay in the game" and continue to live your life as a Fulfilled Couple.
Click here now to create your customized, private support plan will ensure a successful marriage for years to come!
Reason #8:“We’d really like to have a fulfilling marriage, but we don’t have the money for a program like this.”
There are 3 basic types of marriage support that are offered today:
Type #1) A marriage therapist who will see the two of you in an office setting.
Type #2) A home study course that might include books, CD’s and study materials you read and complete on your own.
Type #3) Marriage coaching where you talk to a third party on the telephone who advises you on skills you can practice to improve your marriage.
Type #1 marriage help often creates more damage to your relationship when one of you feels the therapist is taking sides. Though insurance often pays for this help, the low cost to the couple becomes a high cost when the process fails.
Type #2 marriage help is a lower cost alternative and may work if both spouses learn by listening and reading non-interactive study materials. If one spouse does not follow along, or decides to quit, this type of help can cause the couple to fail as one spouse becomes discouraged and the materials end up sitting on a shelf in the corner of the room never to be touched again.
Type #3 marriage help is a higher cost option because it gives you the benefit of a private marriage coach who supports both of your needs in a positive environment. Typical pricing runs within the $150 per hour range.
The Fulfilled Couple program is Type 3 marriage help, but delivers a long-term support system for couples who need someone to care about their marriage when no one else will.
The cost of this long-term marriage support system is still lower than marriage coaching on a per hour basis.
Your ability to afford this option has to do with your ability to believe you really need it. If you enter the program believing that it "might" work for you, and the purchase is in the "It would be nice" category, then you can be certain it would be a waste from the start. (Note: Read the section here titled "Who Should Not Purchase the Fulfilled Couple program") for more information.
Click here now to SAVE yourself from the pain and great financial strain of divorce.
Reason #9: Above All Else, "It" Is Probably
Your Single Biggest Source Of Resistance
FINAL NOTE: Look,
if you’re still hesitant about joining the Fulfilled Couple program, it may be because of
the most self-sabotaging, yet overlooked reason of all.
"It" is the same thing that is responsible for robbing you of the Joy, Happiness, Passion, Closeness, Laughter and Intimacy you once felt for each other back when you first met.
"It" is the one thing that raises its ugly head when you want to learn something new, or when you push yourself to master what you already know. (You will know what I’m talking about because you face it every day.)
"It" poisons your mind with destructive thoughts that are distortions of reality.
"It", slowly eats away at BOTH of you each day, igniting negative thoughts that feed your resentment towards each other.
Can you guess which “silent monster ” I’m talking about?
"It" is the "little voice" that shows-up before, during and after a heated argument. As a matter of fact, "it" IS the major CAUSE of your arguments!
I’m talking about...that “Little Voice Inside Your Head."
Right now - even before you start reading my letter below - I want you to "shut off" that “Little Voice Inside Your Head” for the next 10 minutes.
You see, my goal here is not to change your mind about your opinion of my Fulfilled Couple program, or anything else.
My only goal today – right here, right now - is to open your mind so that you read my message without the doubtful, hesitant and skeptical mind-set that you normally shift into whenever you encounter a new web site on the internet.
Now keep in mind... this "little voice inside your head" is NOT your conscience....it is something else.
In fact, it's just the opposite and would probably look similar to the green monster to the right.
Now picture this for a moment...
Let's say your spouse came home late one night after a long days work (without calling you to let you know where s/he's been).
At that point, your "little voice" would kick in and sound something like this...
"You've been worried sick...there's no excuse....let em' have it!" at which point you would completely snap at your spouse...
...only to find later on that your spouse had a very legitimate reason for coming home so late without calling.
It is this bad judgement on your "little voice's" behalf that creates resentment and negative thoughts in your spouse's mind. Thoughts like...
"Why can't s/he trust me? It's beginning to feel like s/he's more of a PARENT than a spouse!"
Some people like to think of this little voice as IT REALLY IS... self limiting, fear producing, worry inducing...the source of everything that's wrong in your life.
Others, refuse to acknowledge that this little voice exists.
This little voice is ultimately the cause of most marriage problems and it is the one thing that is responsible for the majority of the bad decisions you make such as...
Engaging in an extramarital affair
Letting your fears and jealousy take over
Expecting a lot from your spouse without giving anything back in return
"Snapping" at your spouse instead of remaining calm and assessing the situation first
Being over-demanding of your spouse's time
Foolishly spending money to "get back" at your spouse
Listen, right now, even as you're reading this letter, if you make a conscious effort, you'll hear this little voice tell you that you need to GIVE UP.
It will tell you that this program is WRONG for you because I do not have your best interest in mind. Your little voice might even try to convince you that...
"Larry Is Just Trying To "Make a Quick Buck" On The Internet."
Well this just couldn't be further from the truth.
Saving marriages is my LIFE. I developed this program based on my OWN formerly-miserable marriage that I transformed after 27 years.
I experienced first-hand the same kind of pain you're experiencing right now.
So right now, I want you to "block out" those thoughts and read this letter with an open mind because what you're about to read can change the course of YOUR marriage as it has for so many others.
So if anything I’ve
said so far is true for you, please have the will to continue reading.
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A Proven, Effective Alternative To Marriage Counseling...For Couples who want to restore their marriage, but find a way to do so on their own!
Dear friend,
I want you to share a TRUE STORY with you that a man named Ken shared with me very recently. This happens to be a story from a man, but I receive stories just like this from women every day.
I share this story not to scare you, but rather to shake you out of the sheer level of denial, the destructive mind set, we all enter during our times of marriage trouble...it's the belief that... "it will never happen to me".
So without further delay, here's Ken's story...
"I was the luckiest guy in the world – I had found a smart, beautiful woman who wanted to marry me!
This was my first true relationship with a woman and I did not see a need or even want to look for anything else – she agreed to marry me after several months of dating. I believed, in the way that many young people do, that love would conquer all.
I believed that if I was decent, sober, holding down a job, providing for the family, never abusive and always faithful to her that the marriage would work, no matter what. Marriage, to me, meant longevity, happiness and security. Divorce would never happen to me (or us).
We did have that dream – for a while. The cute suburban house, three kids, pets and Sunday barbeques with family characterized our happy life. Christmas mornings, vacations, Trick or Treating – memories that last a lifetime.
Then it was all gone in an instant...
...the moment she came home one night and told me she wanted a divorce.
Where did I go wrong?
I won’t bore you with the painful details of our last days together, instead I will focus on all the days I had to do it right and didn’t.
For me, many decisions I made were based on the “my way or the highway” attitude (like my father) – I was stubborn, not often willing to compromise, too controlling and often carried the traditional male outlook on our relationship.
There was too much for her to do – working full-time, taking care of three kids and the house, all making her exhausted and stressed. I did not realize how difficult that was for her. I did not do enough to help her, meet her needs, or even find out what they were for that matter.
I did not understand her needs – whether it was from not listening or from her not communicating her needs to me in a way that I would understand. I did not realize this until it was too late.
Over our last years together it became a divide and conquer mentality – I would do this chore, she would do that, I would go to X and she to Y rather than spending time together.
I thought we had to divide the tasks to get everything done and she went along with this system. We got into this cycle and I did not realize how dangerous it was. Through this, we drifted apart and became more like roommates than a loving, married couple.
We did not talk enough. Period. We did not focus enough energy on our shared life and dreams. There were times when we both put work before our relationship. I assumed too much and took the relationship for granted.
I failed and we failed.
She gave up on us – thinking I would never change. The romantic spark was crushed and she would never come back no matter how I tried (and boy did I), but all too late."
Okay,
now let’s step back from this unfortunate story for a moment. I want you to be totally honest with me and yourself...
okay?
How Would You Feel If Ken's Life Suddenly
Became a Reality For YOU One Day?
How would it make you feel if you suddenly lost your wife or husband?
What about your kids?
Imagine Being Forced By Law To Only See
Your Kids....When The Judge Said You Could.
Imagine your children BEGGING to be with you but they can't, because they have to leave and go back to "the OTHER HOUSE." The one with your x-wife's boyfriend or your x-husband's girlfriend.
Don't think this would happen to you?
Think again. It can and it will if you continue to live in denial that "everything is okay."
Even minor problems can escalate into MAJOR problemsIF you ignore them.
As in Ken's situation above, his "my way or the highway" attitude gradually fueled his wife's resentment, frustration and loveless feelings which eventually led them to divorce.
Now I have a question for you that I really want you to take into serious consideration...
“If
We Met Here 3 Years From Today... What Would Your Marriage Look Like?
Do you think the minor problems in your marriage right now will have "ironed themselves out" on their own?
Is your marriage REALLY going to improve on it's own with little to no effort on your part?"
Listen, I know what it's like to suffer in a miserable marriage. I didn't know what to do or who to turn to.
Back in 1974 shortly after I met my wife Marsha, we got married.
I was jolted into the fact of how LITTLE we had in common and how OPPOSITE our values were. These were the years that consisted of fighting, throwing things, screaming and arguing about EVERYTHING.
There Were Our Trips To Police Stations, Car
Chases and Battles Over Her Way
vs. My Way.
(And no, I'm not exaggerating.)
We were enemies living together under one roof. And frankly, she scared me.
But I'm getting way ahead of myself. Let me back up.
Back in 1974, I knew very little about what it takes to have a successful and happy marriage.
When I first met my wife Marsha, she was quiet and mysterious. But it wasn't until I married her that I discovered how powerful this woman was, and how insecure I was.
At That Point in My Life, I Was Truly in For a RUDE AWAKENING.
I now affectionately refer to the first 6 years of our marriage as the “Nightmare Years.” This dreadful period began only ONE MONTH after we were married.
Marsha made it crystal clear that no matter what I did, she would never let me go. She believed that the grass is never greener on the other side and marriage is forever no matter how unhappy you are.
Marsha's beliefs and values were impossible for me to handle because prior to her, I always ran away from relationships that became too demanding.
Now I found myself in the most demanding one of all.
During the next 11 years of our bad marriage (that's an understatement to say the least) I began to learn about "Marsha Law", which is a lot like Marshal Law where government is given all authority to control the population.
"Marsha Law" Was Meant To Control Me.
She Had Rules For Everything.
There was the Marsha way and the wrong way. I loved the wrong way.
At this time in our marriage, I didn't understand the significant effect that our values had on our marriage.
These “clashing value systems” were causing us to collide on a regular basis, but today, I use this profound truth to help many couples realize the source of a lot of their tension.
Marsha's constant demand that I become both responsible and disciplined created an unbelievable amount of pressure upon me.
As a child, my parents lived an irresponsible lifestyle that was unlike the values that Marsha was raised with. I grew up without a responsible role model in sight. As a result of this, I had become quite the irresponsible adult.
Then One Day, After One of Our Two or Three
Day "Battles", an Odd Thing Happened…
Marsha and I both ended up in the kitchen late one night and she suddenly decided to ‘break the silence barrier’ and tell me about her childhood experiences in depth and detail.
Since she has "total recall" of her entire life, she was able to show me, incident by incident, how each of her childhood experiences literally created the strong willed adult she had become.
She also made me realize how my own childhood produced the irresponsible, undisciplined adult that I had become; one who was constantly seeking the approval of others no matter what it cost my family.
It was through Marsha's stories that I learned how every childhood event instills powerful belief systems that activate in adult life.
I discovered that only when you identify and compare BOTH you and your spouses values, can you even BEGIN to understand each other and resolve the major issues in your marriage.
Now Here’s The Bottom Line That I Don’t Want You To Miss…
Marsha and I STILL HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON.
We have completely OPPOSITE VALUES, yet we are happily married today because of the 3 major ideas I discovered during our 27 years in marriage hell.
And before I go on... let me tell you right now WHY I’m telling you this...
It's because if you’re anything like me, the quality of your life is determined by the quality of your marriage.
But Here’s The Problem
You must first have the know-how and become EDUCATED in order to remain happily married.
15 years ago I had no clue what a happy marriage looked like, there was no hope in sight. I read countless psychology and relationship books and attended self improvement seminars in an effort to become like all those couples who seemingly drift through life together, never letting ANY obstacle stand between them.
But all of that has changed today.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: “What is taught in the Fulfilled Couple program?
A: To be happily married, there are 4 "foundation stones" you absolutely cannot live without. These concepts are at the core of what we teach.
Foundation #1: Discover how you are uniquely motivated at heart. Find out what REALLY drives you to succeed in life and in your marriage.
Foundation #2: Uncover the "Invisible Lifestyle" values you were given in childhood...that you still live through today. Discover which values are causing conflict in your marriage today and find out what you can do to overcome these differences.
Foundation #3: Stop guessing what you need to do to make your spouse feel loved and fulfilled. Discover your two greatest emotional needs and finally learn how to clearly express them to your spouse.
Foundation #4: Learn the #1 most critical skill for true happiness in life - overcoming your negative feelings in just 60 seconds. Master this skill and remain calm and rational under pressure...even during the most heated arguments.
When you finally understand these critical "foundation stones" of a successful marriage, you'll have the foundation you need to build a very fulfilling life and marriage. You will learn and experience this and much more!
Q: “Where does the Fulfilled Couple program take place?”
A: NOT in an office setting...but in the comfort and privacy of your own home! Instead of a working with marriage counselor who focuses on the "problems" in your relationship, you'll be working with your Marriage Translator who is responsible for teaching you how to be married successfully and becoming a fulfilled couple…together!
Marriage Translators NEVER place blame on anyone, at any time. This is not about who is right and who is wrong. The Fulfilled Couple program is 100% positive and focuses on what is RIGHT about you instead of what is wrong with you.
A: There are 3 curriculum plans you can choose from. The first two plans, Platinum and Gold offer a payment plan of 12 monthly payments or you can choose the one-time payment option as well to receive a discount. The third curriculum plan, Option 3, is a lower cost one-month program that is paid in one installment.
2. Then fill out the Husband or Wife Fulfilled Couple applications. From there, we will contact you to schedule your first call where you will discuss your applications with your Translator. (This is a preliminary call that is not part of the fixed hours in each curriculum plan.)
A: After you have each filled out your Husband and Wife Applications, and discussed your marriage with your Translator, you can begin as early as one week from that preliminary phone call, provided our Translators schedules allow it.
Q: “What’s the first thing we should do after completing our Husband and Wife Applications?”
A: Once you have signed up for the Fulfilled Couple program, we will contact you to arrange a preliminary call where you will discuss your application with your Translator. During this call, your Translator will discuss with you what you will need to be prepared to do to succeed as a couple through this program.
Because you have read this letter before signing up for the Fulfilled Couple program, you are already aware of what kind of couples we are looking to accept into the school.
This call with your Translator is the second step in our screening process to ensure we are a good fit for you and you are a good fit for the school.
In the event that we mutually agree the school is not right for you, we immediately refund your investment, no questions asked. No harm done, no hard feelings. :-)
A: The Fulfilled Couple program is only for couples. Our "sister" program for one spouse who believes they want to turn their troubled marriage around can be found at www.stopyourdivorcein4weeks.com.
Q: “Do I have 1-on-1 personal coaching opportunities?”
A: You will each have 4, one-on-one personal coaching opportunities in the Platinum Curriculum that are not found in either of the other two curriculums.
Q: “Does your Fulfilled Couple program work if I'm just entering my first/second marriage?”
A: If this is your first marriage, The Fulfilled Couple program is a sure way to get your marriage off to a far more secure footing. You will create a strong foundation for your relationship that will help you withstand common “hot button” obstacles such as in-laws, financial issues, conflicting values and so many other tests that push marriages to the breaking point.
Think of this program as your safe passage through the murky waters that destroy so many other marriages simply because they did not have the knowledge and skills to do things right the first time around.
Second marriages put a couple under far more stain than they ever imagined, especially when children from previous marriages are in the home. Tension can remain high and communication greatly strained. The Fulfilled Couple program helps husbands and wives in second marriages understand their roles as step parents and the seemingly complex relationship with their step-children.
In second marriages, there are many ways to make mistakes that could put great strain on or even cost you your marriage. This program teaches you the principles, methods and gives you the tools to understand how to reduce the high stress of second marriages and blended families that very often...rarely "blend" at all.
Q: “What is the Fulfilled Couple program refund policy?”
A: Should the two of you complete the first month of the program and find that it is not what you had expected and you did not learn anything new that you did not know prior to entering the program; just return your materials and we will promptly issue you a refund. To keep this from becoming an issue, this is why we ask each of you to fill out an application before you enter the program, as well as speak with one of our Marriage Translators so we can help you decide if the two of you are indeed ready to be good students, and therefore, ready to succeed long-term in your marriage.
Q: “What makes the Fulfilled Couple program different from the other marriage saving solutions available on the internet?”
A: The Fulfilled Couple program has a much different focus than the vast majority of marriage programs, books and courses do, that are available on the internet.
Rather than teaching about outward actions, you will learn what actually creates your behavior and drives your negative emotions toward each other. This is the big difference.
If you focus on acting differently, you will just go back to the way you've always done things, which is to say, you'll go back to the cause of what has always driven and created the way you handle situations.
Until you "lift the hood", you won't know how to tune up the car. Our focus is a lot less on "What Happened When " and a whole lot more on "Being Who Your Really Are". You'll be far happier together when you realize that you don't have to change who you are at heart.
One thing is certain. You won't be dwelling on problems because that only creates more problems.
If I’ve said this once, I have said it a thousand times:
Marriage Requires Skill
Without it, that dangerous combination of denial and "divorce won't happen to us" can make you become unaware that what happened to Ken, (full story above) can happen to YOU before you even know what hit you.
End of story.
Ken shared with me some life-long lessons from his painful experience of ending his marriage and starting a new life from scratch.
Ken wanted me to share them with you so that those who might be considering divorce, will know what they're in for...
Confessions of a Newly Divorced X- Husband
Divorce sucks (even for the one who initiates it).
Bad things happen to good people.
No one wins financially or emotionally – everyone loses.
The kids lose out – they may adjust and accept it, but it hurts them in many ways (and for many years to come).
To make the relationship work you have to work at it – every day.
You need to continue communicating – talking and really listening (not just sharing e-mails or text messages).
You need to talk out your issues and feelings – push yourselves even if it is uncomfortable. Talking about it is better than holding it in and letting little things build up.
Assume nothing – if you are not sure, ask and talk about it. Even if you do not agree, at least you know where each stands. For the men, man up and face the situation – do not hope that it will just fade away.
Give more than you expect to receive! Do so around the house, with the kids, having fun or doing things together. Don’t fall into the trap of putting work before your relationship.
Love does not conquer all. Take better care of her, her needs and your own feelings. Treat your relationship as carefully as you would a fragile egg.
Focus your energy on your shared life and dreams. When you're obsessing more about your own needs, you fail her, the marriage, kids, your family and yourself.
Take time for self-reflection. Why was I not able to see the problems or make changes in my behavior to be a better, more loving man and husband? I did not see or hear the hints from her, nor did I want to hear them.
You can't control what happens to you but you can (and should) control your reactions to what happens.
Do more together as a couple – it can be simple things like household chores to fun things (besides watching TV and working on a computer).
Divorce is the destruction of forever-ness, of happily ever after and your dream of the family unit you've always wanted.
There is no getting over divorce. You may eventually accept it and find forgiveness but it will be a part of your memories for life.
From all this I realize that I have had many failings. This last year has caused me to take a hard look at myself and dig deep for strength. I know I have learned much and I will do better in the future with all my relationships by changing my actions and attitudes toward others, especially my children.
And this is precisely
why I’m so passionate about getting you in my Fulfilled Couple program right now.
I Don't Want This To Happen To You.
And if you're first starting out in a new marriage (whether your first or second), there is NO better time than NOW, to learn how to be married...BEFORE the resentment and bitterness grabs a hold of your relationship.
So are you ready to join my other students? Are you ready to beat the odds of our ever-growing divorce rate?
I’ll do everything I can to teach you how to be fulfilled both personally...and as a couple in your marriage.
My methods have a proven track record so you too can repeatedly and consistently ...
Think of the words to express how you want your spouse to treat you, knowing EXACTLY HOW and WHY you want to be treated a certain way
Finally, get a clear understanding of who your spouse really is, what REALLY motivates him/her and what it means to you
Clear the “smokescreen” and discover the REAL causes of your arguments and disagreements
Keep a "clear head" with your spouse by eliminating your negative feelings in just 60 seconds
Never again argue over "whose way is right", because you'll have a clear understanding of how your values were created...
As You Know, There Are Many Marriage
Saving Solutions Available On The Internet...
But The Fact Is, NONE Of Them Offer
The High Level
of One-On-One Support That Fulfilled Couple Does.
An ebook or at-home study course simply can't help you if you're looking for a REAL PERSON to talk to.
If you want to be taken by the hand and guided, step-by-step, following your own customized "action plan", Fulfilled Couple is right for you.
If you have marriage problems, it's because you know NOTHING about what it takes to have a really good marriage.
Sure, you have good days and bad days. You have children you're both pouring your love and energy into, but still, your relationship with each other is not what you hoped for.
All you know is that you don't feel safe, secure or connected. Now before I move on...
Let Me Explain What The Fulfilled Couple program is NOT...
It's NOT like any solution you've tried before.
Fulfilled Couple is not an emotional weekend event, an at-home study course or a book that one of you will read while the other won't even pick it up.
Fulfilled Couple is NOT based on complicated psycho-babble which requires a PHD to understand.
There are no weird psycho-mumbo-jumbo terms to learn that are completely out of touch with day to day living or your faith.
It's does NOT bring about more pain in an already painful marriage.
The calls are enjoyable, nothing about it is hard to do because it's focused on helping you to be who you really are. In this program, you learn who you really are at your best. It even begins with the premise that you a good person. Even your spouse doesn't understand this or in many cases, or won't admit it.
It's NOT marriage therapy.
You'll never talk about your situations and your arguments or repeatedly answer the question "So how do you feel about that?"
The Fulfilled Couple program will never take sides or make one of you feel like the you’re the problem.
Because it takes place 100% over the phone from the privacy of your own home, there are no uncomfortable office visits to deal with. You never need to drive to some distant office building, end up fighting and have to drive home together in silence, or argue in the car.
It's NOT a risky decision.
The Fulfilled Couple program is fully backed by our 100% RISK-FREE guarantee. This means you will have a positive learning experience because we will focus on what's right about you, NOT what's wrong with you.
You will never, under ANY circumstances, become “the bad guy” in the relationship.
Beyond all this, you have the advantage of one of two different guarantees. But I'll go into that later on.
This Program Is Made Up of Private Phone
Sessions Focused ONLY On The Two of You
There are no other couples on the calls throughout the program. It's just the two of you and your marriage translator (see below). You will be shown how to be married to each other without fear, without endless misunderstanding or the need to walk on eggshells.
The entire program is conducted over the phone while you're at home.
Who Will Be "Teaching" This Private program?
Each of your sessions will be conducted by a Marriage Translator. A Marriage Translator translates your words, feelings and beliefs back and forth so each of you can finally understand each other in a non-confrontational and safe way. Nobody gets hurt feelings.
Every married couple would benefit from a Marriage Translator. They don't need a therapist, they need a Translator.
If you're like most people, you want to avoid risk. That means not spending time and money on marriage improvements that don't last.
The Fulfilled Couple program is the ultimate in no-risk marriage improvement, because you're connected through the program for a full year. You have that long to learn how to be married.
I want you to know how to be successful in marriage - successful to the point where you are personally fulfilled because your confidence, your sense of self worth and your understanding of each other reaches an ALL TIME high. It's exactly what I would have wanted for my marriage if it was available in those days.
The Top 8 Reasons Why Should You Enroll
In The Fulfilled Couple Program
To make the complex simple…discover how you are wired emotionally so you can eliminate your negative feelings in 60 seconds.
See your spouse in a whole new light...finally have a way to understand where he/she really comes from and understand the "why" behind their behavior.
Understand your children on a deeper level than before. You'll learn how to connect with even your most challenging child to create a far better relationship and a successful future as well.
Gain the skill of being able to feel safe in conversation with each other, which lightens the mood so you can laugh at yourselves like you used to.
Make peace with your childhood pains so you can move on to a better life and marriage.
See a definite change in your childrens' behavior as they see mom and dad finally connecting. Not only will their school performance improve, but they will choose friends who will be a positive influence on them.
Create a vision for your marriage, then put it in a frame-able certificate to keep you focused on the life you are moving toward, not the life you've had.
(Click on Fulfilled Couple Vision image below to see larger version)
Turn your vision into specific goals that both of you are excited to pursue together. This is where you see big changes in how you treat each other and where you grow together, instead of apart.
(Click on Fulfilled Couple Goal Setting Kit image below to see larger version)
Can ANYONE Join The Fulfilled Couple Program?
In a word, no. There are several levels of criteria you must meet before we accept your registration.
CRITERIA #1: You must BOTH be ready to be good students of what we teach. You must be ready and willing to do the work of applying what you learn for the full length of the program.
CRITERIA #2: You must see the investment in your program as MORE valuable than any 401K, Gold, Real Estate or Stocks and Bonds. (If you do not genuinely see the value in a great marriage from the beginning, your chances at succeeding in this program will diminish.)
Look, we don't want to fail. If I allow couples to enroll who are just "poking a stick" at their marriage problem, my Translators and I will end up failing because our couples will fail.
And as I've already mentioned, we have no interest in failing. Just as any university does not accept students with poor grades, we screen out couples who don't meet our criteria.
Who Should Participate In the
Fulfilled
Couple program?
We are looking for couples who:
Can honestly say they have an open mind and progressive attitude
Are extremely busy and need an efficient way to learn and improve their marriage.
Are highly motivated to improve their marriage because they know it will secure their own happiness and their family.
Are eager to substantially increase their own personal satisfaction by becoming happily married.
Are determined to break free of any destructive beliefs they may have been raised with.
Value associating themselves with like-minded couples who strive to become a fulfilled couple, rather than just a married couple.
See themselves as successful individuals who are looking for the next level of improvement in their life.
Will be accountable in applying what they learn and being a good student.
Who Should NOT Participate?
These couples will not get any benefit out of this program:
Are set in their old ways, and are most comfortable dwelling on their fears.
Have no need or desire to believe they are valuable, important and worth
Click the "play" button below and turn up your speakers to hear the results Darek and Sam experienced through the Fulfilled Couple 
A: To be happily married, there are 4 "foundation stones" you absolutely cannot live without. These concepts are at the core of what we teach. 
It's NOT like any solution you've tried before.
To make the complex simple…discover how you are wired emotionally so you can eliminate your negative feelings in 60 seconds.
See your spouse in a whole new light...finally have a way to understand where he/she really comes from and understand the "why" behind their behavior.
Understand your children on a deeper level than before. You'll learn how to connect with even your most challenging child to create a far better relationship and a successful future as well. 
Gain the skill of being able to feel safe in conversation with each other, which lightens the mood so you can laugh at yourselves like you used to.
Make peace with your childhood pains so you can move on to a better life and marriage.
See a definite change in your childrens' behavior as they see mom and dad finally connecting. Not only will their school performance improve, but they will choose friends who will be a positive influence on them.
Create a vision for your marriage, then put it in a frame-able certificate to keep you focused on the life you are moving toward, not the life you've had. 
Turn your vision into specific goals that both of you are excited to pursue together. This is where you see big changes in how you treat each other and where you grow together, instead of apart. 