Since marriage is complicated, it's no surprise Marriage 101 is just the first step toward a better marriage, not the last step.
The next step for couples to take moves them into an optional in-depth, 8-hour live telephone support program called The Fulfilled Couple Program. If you choose to enroll in this next step, you'll be working with the same person you trusted to be your Marriage Translator during Marriage 101.
We've separated these two programs into 2 steps so you can "get a feel" for our style of teaching along with the insights we teach in our 1-hour, Marriage 101 program before you decide to make the investment and committment of time in the 8-hour Fulfilled Couple program.
The Fulfilled Couple program support calls take place twice a week, for four weeks. The focus is much different from other marriage books and events you might have been through because this program teaches you how to eliminate your negative feelings in 60 seconds.
No other program, marriage counselor or therapist teaches couples this essential skill of being happily married.
Just imagine what it would be like if the two of you could suddenly "turn off" your worries, resentment, fear, jealousy and blame!
What if you could replace those with a calm, secure and safe feeling with each other?
EVERYTHING would change! Without all that resentment holding you back, the two of you will actually WANT to support each other's greatest needs.
This is the reason Fulfilled Couple has an 88% success rate in turning around struggling and miserable marriages.
Once you feel good, everything else becomes possible. You cannot ACT good, until you first feel good. The focus here is far less on "what happened when" and a lot more on "being YOU at your best."
If you want your marriage to stay strong and happy, there are four "foundation stones" you cannot live without. These are at the core of what we teach.
FOUNDATION #1: Discover how you’re uniquely motivated at heart. Find out what REALLY drives you to succeed in life and in your marriage.
(You'll learn foundation 1 through step 1 - the Marriage 101 program. You'll learn foundation 2 through 4 once you choose to enroll in step two, the Fulfilled Couple program.)
FOUNDATION #2: Uncover your "Invisible Lifestyle" values that you were given in your childhood - that you're still living through today. Discover which values are causing conflict in your marriage and how to overcome them.
FOUNDATION #3: Stop guessing what you need to do to make your spouse feel loved. Find those two greatest emotional needs your spouse has always needed and do what matters MOST to him or her.
FOUNDATION #4: Learn the MOST critical skill for real happiness in life…overcoming your negative feelings in 60 seconds. Master this skill and remain calm and rational under pressure…even through what would have been heated arguments.
When you've completed this four-part foundation, the marriage you were hoping for - the one your wedding day was meant to celebrate - will finally be possible with the right tools and know-how to create the fulfilling, strong and long-lasting marriage you've always wanted.
Once you complete the very first step (Marriage 101) towards a better marriage, more information will be given to you about the 8-hour Fulfilled Couple program. The two of you can then collectively make the decision to move forward toward resolving other issues in your marriage (covered in foundation 2 through 4), or stay where you are and apply what you've learned through Marriage 101. The choice is yours.
